{"id":1,"date":"2016-01-13T21:24:36","date_gmt":"2016-01-13T21:24:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/copebetter.com\/\/?p=1"},"modified":"2017-06-13T11:25:47","modified_gmt":"2017-06-13T11:25:47","slug":"3-tips-dealing-with-adversity","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/copebetter.com\/3-tips-dealing-with-adversity\/","title":{"rendered":"3 Tips on Dealing with Adversity in Life"},"content":{"rendered":"
Life is filled with many unexpected challenges and adversity that can trigger a myriad of emotions, including stress and helplessness. There are healthy ways to manage these emotions and create growth within. \u00a0Here are 3 tips that will help you deal with life’s unexpected\u00a0adversity.<\/p>\n
While our days may have some degree of predictability, it\u2019s not uncommon to encounter unfamiliar events. When faced with situations that feel uncomfortable, hurtful, unfair or even hateful, take time to ask yourself, “What can I learn from this.” There are lessons in each situation. Reflecting on what you learned will reinforce valuable life lessons and remove emotion from (what could be) an emotionally charged event.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s not uncommon to ruminate over events that feel ugly, unwanted or unexpected. At the end of the day, however, do you have control over the situation? Often times the answer is no, and yet it\u2019s difficult to jump off the rumination wheel. Discuss the event with someone you trust who will listen and help you identify where you had control and where you didn\u2019t within a particular event. If you continue to have trouble jumping off the rumination train, grab three notecards and write three statements about yourself that identify your strengths. For example, I recognize I feel angry because I didn\u2019t get a raise. I\u2019m a reliable employee and therefore, if things don\u2019t change in six months, I\u2019ll start looking for another job.<\/p>\n
Once you\u2019ve identified what you learned from an unexpected situation, and gone a step further to assess your own degree of control in that same situation, start planning your next move. It\u2019s okay if you need a few days to adjust to an unexpected event, but once you\u2019ve had your pity party, start hustling. Use this opportunity to stretch beyond your comfort zone. Show your non-believers how influential, smart and talented you are. Once you\u2019re outside of your comfort zone, you\u2019ll surprise them and yourself.<\/p>\n
The next time you find yourself struggling with feelings of stress and helplessness, use these 3 tips on dealing with adversity in life. Remember, opportunity is endless when we open our eyes, hearts and minds to it.<\/p>\n
Life is filled with many unexpected challenges and adversity that can trigger a myriad of emotions, including stress and helplessness. There are healthy ways to manage these emotions and create growth within. \u00a0Here are 3 tips that will help you deal with life’s unexpected\u00a0adversity. 1. Ask yourself what can I learn from this situation? While…<\/p>\n